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How to find my passion – why is this so hard??

Find your passionOK, everyone says follow your passion and the money will come, everything will be great, etc, etc, etc. It SEEMS like it should be really easy to say what you passion is, right? But, in reality, it’s not at all easy. I feel so much pressure to identify what my God-given passion is. Yikes, what if I pick the wrong thing? Do I have to pick just one? Can it change as I get older?

Let’s step back.

Let’s think a bit more logically and look at things from a different perspective.

Some questions to ask:

  1. What do I really enjoy doing in my free time?
  2. What are my hobbies?
  3. Are there any topics or subjects about which people often ask me for advice?
  4. What are the things I can do where time just flies by and I get caught up in what I’m doing?
  5. If others where to describe my strengths & talents, what would they say?
  6. If money were not an issue, what career would I choose?
  7. How can I best serve others?
  8. What are some of the things I like most about myself?
  9. What are some things I would regret not accomplishing if I never tried?
  10. What drives me to succeed?

Then, relax.

Don’t try so hard to make it happen and figure out all of the next steps. Think about some activities that might get your brain on another path, which then might lead you to your answers. Definitely read as much as possible. There are tons of wonderful, inspiring books out there to help you do some soul-searching, inspire you, and offer more possibilities you may not have considered. Be on the lookout for classes that might interest you on subjects you would like to know more. Or, maybe even teach a class on a topic you do know lots about and would like to share your knowledge. Start writing in a journal. It can be a diary style of writing, or more of a gratitude journal, anything that gets your thoughts and feelings on paper. Listen to pod casts. There are pod casts available on pretty much any topic; it’s actually pretty remarkable! Pod casts are great because you can listen to them in the car, while exercising, while cleaning the house, whenever. Accomplish two tasks at once!

I also find that taking a little road trip or larger vacation puts things in perspective for me. Getting away from the everyday chores and obligations is so important to clear our heads. Just changing your scenery and routine can help to clarify what you truly like to do and how you want to spend your time. Not to mention, traveling somewhere, either new or familiar, exposes us to new experiences, people, cultures and lifestyles. After any kind of get-away I always feel a greater energy to pursue my dreams and passions.

Lastly, trust yourself, and your gut. Your gut NEVER leads you astray. Be honest with yourself and enjoy the process. Oh, and be fearless. What have you got to lose? There are no wrong answers to the passion questions. There may be roadblocks, or setbacks, or changes in course. That’s OK, and useful. Learn from those and believe with all that you have that there are reasons for the challenges, because nothing awesome comes easy. It will be so worth it.

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2 thoughts on “How to find my passion – why is this so hard??

  1. I’ve heard this so many times too! And I’ve actually tried to pursue things that I thought I enjoyed and hated it once I decided to do it for $$. But love your idea on reading. I try to read a self help book every once in awhile and the one you have in the pic looks interesting. Will have to look into that. Thanks for the great post!

    Alicia P.

  2. I’m glad you have those questions and methods. Try learning about what you think you want to do and the confidence will grow, well, that helped me. And to just take and leap and see where it goes 🙂

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